Obedient Wives Club

So there’s this movement founded by Muslims in Malaysia that pushes “hooker sex to keep men calm”.

They say “disobedient” wives are the cause of the increasing rates of divorce. So you want wives to change and be more submissive before you become “responsible” to your family.

But as a husband and a father, shouldn’t you be responsible to your family in the first place, no questions asked? Isn’t loving your family – taking care of them, providing for them – one of your main purpose in life as a family man? Why would you demand something before doing that responsibility?

I mean, sure, it is the “obligation” of a wife to let her husband lead their family, but your main concern is about the sexual “obligations” of the wife.

They say “it is the wives’ duty to make love better than “first-class prostitutes” to solve familial problems.”

I’d take the “duty to make love” part, but “better than first-class prostitutes”? Maybe if you give us a hell lot of shopping money, or buy us expensive cars, or give us extravagant jewelries everyday – maybe if you treat us like YOUR prostitutes – then we have no reason to deprive you of the “services” you demand.

Seriously, if you want your wives to rock your world in bed, have them lose their inhibitions in bed. You can start with having them lose the cloth that covers their faces. Let your women show some skin in public. Give them the confidence they need to feel that they are attractive and desirable.

“What is wrong with being a whore … to your husband?” you ask. I will agree with you. I have some clarifications on what being a whore to your husband actually mean, but I will agree with you. However, you have to understand that your so-called whores perform that good in bed for a reason – they are self-confident individuals who are empowered to exude their seductive side by being liberated from the cruel opinion of a sexist culture.

And another thing. I’m all for making sweet love between husbands and wives, but that’s just it, MAKE LOVE. Do you mean to tell me that MAKING LOVE with your wife is no different than HAVING SEX with your prostitutes? I see something wrong there. If you don’t, then you probably don’t consider marriage sacred.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not attacking your culture. I’m just trying to point out some reasons why a lot of people think that your movement is degrading your women.

I have nothing against women being “obedient” to their husbands, but don’t you think it’s a little pathetic to demand that from your wife? Wouldn’t it be better if she obeys you not because she is forced to, but because she loves you and respects your authority and views?

Then again, it’s probably just a culture thing. Maybe in their culture, women are considered second-rate citizens. Maybe husbands don’t consider their wives as partners in raising up a family unit, but just somebody to bear their children and be an instrument of sexual release. Probably in their culture, wives are not loved, but used.

Credits to The Washington Examiner for the photo.